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Prem Rawat

We need to know, we need to understand that we are the source for peace and peace isn't all this wishful thinking.

The same thing happens with hope. We don't know the difference between real hope and wishful thinking. And hope starts to convert into wishful thinking.

So when you are in trouble hope is, "I wish I wasn't in trouble." That's not hope. That's your wishful thinking.

Host: Interesting. I didn't know the difference before. Now I do.

Yeah. But it's beautiful,

Host: Yes.

because then when you look at hope then you ask the question, "What is hope?"

If it isn't wishful thinking...You're driving along, and all of a sudden you get two flat tires and you're hoping somebody will come. You're in the middle of the desert and you get two flat tires, you only have one spare, you need to get out of there, and you go "I hope somebody comes."

Host: That's wishful thinking.

Fifteen minutes ago you weren't thinking like that. But now all of a sudden... Is this wishful thinking or is this hope? Is this hope of fulfillment? Or is it hope to get out of trouble?

You're speeding, all of a sudden the police officer pulls you over and now you 'hope' he won't give you a ticket. You 'hope' he will just let you go. Hope! That's hope? Or that's wishful thinking?

You haven't done your homework, you arrive in your class And the teacher says, "Okay, who has..." and you're hoping that he won't ask for the homework because you haven't done it. That's hope? Or is it more than that? Is hope something to do with fulfilling this life?

Host: Yes. Agree.

Is hope to see the gift you have been given? Is hope to see the preciousness of each breath? Is hope to see how fortunate you are that you are alive? Or is hope, "I wish I was like him." That's not hope. That's wishful thinking.

So "show me, show me, how fortunate I am." "Show me the value of each breath."

"Let me not get lost in my problems." Because the problems will come, they will go, and they'll come back. And do you know that all the problems in the world they were bothering somebody else before you. So the problems don't change, the victims do. And then they'll come and bother you.

Hope is more. Hope is: Opportunity accepted. When you see that opportunity—Yes, I am alive. In the midst of all of that, "I am alive! I exist!" Take it. Take it.

How can your own echo say something else than what you said? How can your echo say something different?

You say, “Hello” and the echo says, “Hi, I am fine.” I mean, is that possible? It’s going to say the same thing you are going to say. You say, “Hello;” your echo is going to say, “Hello,” a little bit later, but it’s going to say that. “You’re crazy”—“You’re crazy.”

So, people don’t think the craziness in this world is an echo of themselves—no, no, no. They think that’s somebody else talking. No, it’s you, you, you, you, you, you—all of us!

And what is everybody trying to do? Fix the echo. The world is trying to change the echo. How? How? It’s never going to happen. You want to change the echo? Then, you say something else and nature will follow its course, and you will hear something different. But it won’t be any different than what you had said.

Because when the lamp is lit, it doesn’t matter in whose house it is lit, it will give light. Is your lamp lit?

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– Prem Rawat

Many people in their lives, they see things not going their way; they start losing hope, and the next thing you know, calamity. But it takes courage to have hope; it takes courage to have clarity. And when there is that courage....

This is what’s beautiful. If you get angry, you know what you will be rewarded by? Anger. Just think about it, right? You get angry; you’ll be rewarded by anger. What is the reward of anger? Either you will get more angry.... Maybe, maybe you begin by being angry with your friend, and the next thing you know, you’re also angry with yourself—for being angry at your friend.

Anger rewards anger; anger begets anger. Fear rewards fear. You get afraid of being afraid—and that’s when it really sets in. It’s more than the boogeyman in the closet. Now, you’re afraid to be in the room; you’re afraid to be alive. “Oh my God....”

But...but what is the reward of hope? It brings you more hope. What is the reward of joy? It brings you more joy. What is the reward of happiness? It brings you more happiness. What is the reward of knowledge? It brings you more knowledge. What is the reward of being content? It brings you more contentment. What is the reward of knowing? It brings you more knowing.

This is how it is. This is how it’s always been.

– Prem Rawat

If you were a little child in your house? And you hear a noise and you open your door and you see a thief in your house. And you go to your father’s room, your mother’s and your father’s room.

What is the first thing you’re going to do to your father?

“Wake up, Wake up! Wake up.”

And the father might wake up and go, “What?!”

“There is a thief out there.”

“But why didn’t you just say ‘a thief, a thief, a thief’?”

There is no point in saying “a thief” if your father's asleep! Right?!

So, you’ve got to wake him up first! Right?

That’s what I am doing. I want to wake you up. I want to wake you up. And once you are awake, now I will tell you, there are so many thieves that are robbing you blind.

They’re robbing you blind, every single day. Wake up. That’s what this Knowledge is about,

“Wake up. Wake up!”

This is what kindness is all about, “Wake up!” And you wake up. And you will be able to see the thieves that are stealing you blind every single day Every single day.Wake up!

You tell yourself lies. And the world doesn’t have to lie to you! You are quite capable of telling lies to yourself. “Wake up! Wake up!”

When you have a nightmare, and you might be screaming in your nightmare because it’s so real. “Wake up! Wake up. Wake up.”

That’s what Knowledge is. That’s what hope is. That’s what kindness is. That’s what understanding is. “Wake up.”

That’s what I’m trying to do. You want to sleep! And you’ll feel more comfortable sleeping. And I am more comfortable waking you up.

So, I try. I try. I try.

- Prem Rawat

A few years back, a scientist decided to do an experiment—and he took a huge mirror and he put it in the jungle. And of course you know monkeys are the most curious, right? So they came! And they stood in front of the mirror—and they started screaming! Showing their teeth, hitting the mirror—and freaking out. Then they would run away.

Then ... a big gorilla came, and he went in front of the mirror, and he screamed! And he beat his chest to say, “Who are you?”

And he was angry! He was very angry. And he screamed, and he beat his chest again—and he paced back and forth, and back and forth, and back and forth—why? Do you know why? Do you know why? [Audience: No!]

He did not recognize himself.

That gorilla he was seeing was not an enemy—it was him!

Are we seeing ourselves in the mirror, and not recognizing ourselves? When we kill each other, we kill ourselves! When we rob from each other, we rob from ourselves! Because you ... and you, and you, and you, and you ... are my reflection. You, and you, and you are each others’ reflection in that mirror.

When you become angry at each other, you become only angry at yourself! When you tell a lie, you tell a lie to yourself! When you harm each other, you only harm yourself! Because you do not recognize it’s you.

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– Prem Rawat

MC: [June Sarpong]

So, the next question is quite a poignant one—and again, this is from an audience member. And then she says, “My mum just died. Someone I loved so deeply is no longer here. I feel the pain of parting. Can you help me come to terms with this?”

Prem Rawat:

Yes, I think I can help. When she was alive.... And first of all, you know, my heartfelt condolences, because it is very difficult to lose somebody that you love. And there is a process of sorrow—and of course, you should go through it—because that’s when, in this sorrow, you reconcile your existence.

But understand something—that when she was alive—and sometimes she would get up and go somewhere else! Right? And when she would do that, you knew she wasn’t here, but she was somewhere else! Right?

Well, not that much has changed. One, she will always live in you—always! In your memories, she will be. She will laugh; she will dance; she’ll call you affectionately. This you can embrace. This you can embrace.

And make peace with yourself; make peace, because this is the law of nature. And nobody can change it. Knowing yourself—knowing yourself is also understanding her—because she lives in you.

And it is not the final story by any stretch of the imagination. We are a part—she was once a part—you weren’t born then—but she was a part of this earth. She had no shape of her own; she had the shape of the earth.

And you, do you know, right, that you’re seventy percent water? That’s mostly all of you—I mean, that’s thirty percent left for everything else—that includes guts and bones and nails and hair and eyeballs and—I mean, you’re seventy percent water!

And that’s what she was; she was this earth, indistinguishable—the dust, the water that flows in this, on this earth. And from there, from this, temporarily emerged this being—gave birth to you.... And now she has gone back to being exactly who she was, part of this earth.

When you celebrate your existence, you celebrate her existence. When you celebrate your joy, you celebrate her joy.

Do not underestimate how concerned a tree is for its seed. The strategies that trees have adopted to make sure that that seed exists and goes on; it is unbelievable, unbelievable. The only difference between us and trees—well, you know what the difference, really, the only difference—and this is coming from an expert, not from me, an expert—is we move; they don’t.

And the strategies that they have adopted so that they can live on—and this is you! You see, you, you, you, you—your mother was the tree; made you—and you live. And so far you do....

And when you thrive, she thrives—because she’s inseparable. And when you are happy, she’s happy—because that tree made you. And when you express kindness and when you express appreciation and when you express joy, she expresses joy. Don’t you see how connected you are?

So, now you are in sorrow because you see the separation—right? And the day you start seeing reality, you will see the connection. And when you do, the world will change—for you. Make the connection. Make the connection.